I’m such a loser”
Is what I told myself
Almost every day of my life a few years ago.
I was sleeping on my mother’s couch and just coming off the biggest failure of my life.
During this time, I learned something I’ve never forgotten.
I control my thoughts.
My thoughts dictate my emotions.
My emotions create my habits.
My habits form my life.
What I think to myself EVERYDAY will control the happiness in my life.
The only thing I wanted at that time was to stop feeling bad.
So I cut out the things in my life that made me feel negatively.
-Going out with people who intoxicate my beliefs,
-Hanging out with friends who lived the lifestyle I was trying to escape
-Watching stupid TV shows.
-Beginning everyday by priming. I learned this from Tony Robbins
-Learning incessantly about things that I was faintly interested in.
-Paying close attention to what I said to myself.
-Providing value to people through things I loved.
Doing these things everyday changed how I talked to myself.
“I’m not a loser. I can learn any skill I want. What kind of life do I want to create?”
My decisions from that day until now created the life around me now.
I decided to buy a one way ticket, a Pc, to travel all over Africa this year.
I learned that I love online stuff.
I learned how to create some cool online products and projects mainly around media.
I learned how to create value for brands doing something I love.
Now, I’m an asopiring professional online media strategist
Aiming to travel the world
getting paid to work online and selling beautiful places and beautiful people.
-want to prime everyday.
-pay close attention to my self-talk
I’m the happiest I’ve ever been in my life and look forward to achieving my goals.
In three years, I am moving from:
-and sleeping on my mother’s and friend's couch
- traveling to new countries,
-finding my passion for digital media
-and creating value for people doing something I love.
If your life happiness where it should be, start by asking yourself:
“What do I say to myself everyday?”
🔥 if you’re curious about how I prime every morning, drop a comment below. I’ll message you what I do every morning. It changed my life ❤️💪🙏🔥
Here is the youtube I use to prime every morning:
I am quickly setting up a group for everyone interested in this type of stuff:
In the group I’m starting, I will be prohibiting all spamming / soliciting people to buy things.
Everything that is posted in my group will be like this post and mostly how I am changing my life.
I will be sharing EVERYTHING I know in step by step tutorials.
We will share:
-how I changed my mindset to become growth focused,
-how I learned social media management (and now anything I want in less than a month),
-how I’ve been able to leverage that skill to get to where I am now and where I intend to go (bartering for things and making money)
-how to copywrite and put out real / valuable content
I’ll also only allow other members to post similar growth hack step by step tutorials so people can use this information to change their trajectory in life.
If you want to join, here is the link
Dennis Imaan is a Global Citizen born and currently staying in Malawi. He loves to share his experiences and lessons with others. Travel, Tourism, Innovations, Media and Youth development are close to his heart.